PENCEDERAAN KEPERCAYAAN PADA RELASI PERSAHABATAN REMAJA

Dede Fitriana A, Dr. Faturochman, M.A.

2014 | Tesis | S2 Psikologi

Pengalaman dalam persahabatan tidak selalu berupa pengalaman positif. Kepercayaan sebagai dasar persahabatan dapat dicederai. Kepercayaan dianggap telah dicederai ketika trustor (yang memercayai) mempersepsikan bahwa trustee (yang dipercayai) berperilaku tidak sesuai dengan harapan norma umum (Roth & Sitkin, 1993). Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengetahui gambaran umum dan dinamika psikologi pencederaan kepercayaan dalam relasi persahabatan remaja. Persahabatan sebagai bentuk hubungan interpersonal dibahas menggunakan teori interdependensi. Penelitian dilakukan dalam dua tahap, yaitu kuantitatif berupa survei kepada 117 mahasiswa Fakultas Psikologi Universitas Gadjah Mada. Tahap kedua yaitu kualitatif berupa wawancara kepada 4 responden. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bentuk pencederaan kepercayaan berupa perilaku dan kualitas personal. Pencederaan berupa perilaku meliputi pengungkapan rahasia, pengingkaran janji, kebohongan, serangan verbal, komunikasi dan kepentingan. Selain bentuk pencederaan, penelitian juga mengungkap alasan keakraban, emosi setelah dicederai, besaran kekuatan pencederaan, pertimbangan kekuatan, perbandingan keakraban sebelum dan sesudah pencederaan, dan respon setelah dicederai. Selanjutnya, dinamika pencederaan kepercayaan menjelaskan berbagai variasi kondisi persahabatan setelah dicederai.

The experience in a friendship was not always a positive one. Trust as the foundation in a friendship might be violated. Trust was considered to be violated when the trustor (the one who the people trust) had a perception that the trustee (the one who was trusted) did not behave according to the expectation of the general norms (Roth & Sitkin, 1993). The research was to find the general description and the psychological dynamic within the trust violation in a adolescent’s friendship. A friendship as a form of interpersonal relationship implemented the theory of interdependence. The research was performed in two phases namely the quantitative one in the form of a survey toward 117 students of the Faculty of Psychology, Gadjah Mada University, and the qualitative one in the form of an interview to 4 respondents. The results of the research showed that the forms of trust violation were the behavior and the personal quality. The trust violation included exposure of a secret, avoidance of fulfilling a promise, lie, verbal attack, communication and interest. In addition to the violation, the research also uncovered the reasons of intimacy, emotion after being violated, the magnitude of violation, the consideration of the magnitude, the comparison of intimacy before and after the violation and the response of being violated. Then, the dynamic of the violation explained multiple variations of a friendship after being violated.

Kata Kunci : pencederaan kepercayaan, persahabatan remaja